wow divorced? aren't you like 23?

I'll be 29 in March but yea divorced once, (happily) engaged now. I enjoy teasing myself (PIP OMG LOL ).

Anyway, I asked because I was thinking about all the research I read recently about how men are more likely to misidentify mutual interest with their female friends.

statistically speaking your second marriage is doomed

phatj wrote:It is.

Never played any brass, or anything really except piano.

The one song I learned on piano.

Soren wrote:Anyway, I asked because I was thinking about all the research I read recently about how men are more likely to misidentify mutual interest with their female friends.

I'm sure this is definitely true. I know better and still make an ass out of myself.

The Crimson Cyclone wrote:statistically speaking your second marriage is doomed

Statistically speaking I shouldn't be in any kind of position to be successful at anything. Bipolar, childhood abuse, experimented with hard drugs etc.

It's like a 180 in terms of this relationship and the first. Who the fuck knows if that'll make a difference

i hope this one last the rest of your life

odds defying!!

is it your fiance's first marriage? (if yes then the chances of divorce go down and go up if it's her 3rd of more)

did your first marriage have any infidelity by you? (if yes then the chances of divorce go up again)

this is her first relationship of any kind...no infidelity on my part ever.

CalvinBall wrote:i hope this one last the rest of your life

you're a good dude.

Soren wrote:this is her first relationship of any kind...no infidelity on my part ever.

then your chances are closer to the norm, proceed


(48% of marriages end in divorce but only 39% of first time marriages by both partners end in divorce, it's the multiple married types that skew the statistic upwards to a 50/50 overall chance)

sorry for the threadjack...back to gay stuff with DiM

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Soren wrote:Anyway, I asked because I was thinking about all the research I read recently about how men are more likely to misidentify mutual interest with their female friends.

skeptical

housh the first time we hung out you tried to go home with a lesbian and got mugged

what does that have to do with anything?!

just saying, I've seen it the other way plenty. or maybe I'm just pretty

we were just talking, anyway. kindred souls

honestly, my first marriage never should have happened. We got engaged in 2004, by 2006 she wanted to split and we didn't get married until 2008.

Houshphandzadeh wrote:

Soren wrote:Anyway, I asked because I was thinking about all the research I read recently about how men are more likely to misidentify mutual interest with their female friends.

skeptical

td11 wrote:housh the first time we hung out you tried to go home with a lesbian and got mugged

Houshphandzadeh wrote:what does that have to do with anything?!

just saying, I've seen it the other way plenty. or maybe I'm just pretty

Houshphandzadeh wrote:we were just talking, anyway. kindred souls

Good series of posts here