meatball wrote:Hypothetical situation....
Let's say you (male/early 30s) and your wife decide to separate/divorce/whatever, and you have to move out. You're in DE, but it's a small place, and although things btw you and her are amicable, you'd prefer not to see her all over town (especially if other dudes are eventually tagging along with her).
Consider that you travel for work, and your territory is Central PA--KOP--Center City--Delaware. Where would you move?
Just for shiggles (<--new word) here's some starting points:
West Chester
-- Young crowd, stuff to do, good apartment availability/variety, not too expensive
Philly
-- Great culture, nightlife, lots of ladies, but expensive rent/car insurance, etc
Lancaster
-- Downtown's surprisingly cool, inexpensive, close to family, but lots of memories
Colorado, CA, Oregon, etc
-- Tear up roots and start all over, plenty of hiking and scenery, but expensive w/ grizzly bears
...someplace else?
Hypothetically, where would you go. Hypothetically?

If it was me, I would immediately move to Center City or another downtown area. The last thing I would do is move to a place like Downingtown or Lancaser or West Chester.