Slowhand wrote:I can understand the allure of being with another woman, but I don’t understand the allure of having another dude bone my wife.

my cousin mose wrote:

Slowhand wrote:Also, let's say your wife says “No effing way”. What is she going to be thinking/feeling when you’re hanging out with this woman at work, happy hours, on business trips, etc? I mean, she would already know you’re dtf her. She’d have to wonder.

I dont disagree with this. I think one tact to take is just making her (Mrs. Phred) aware that the offer was made. At least that way he's been transparent about it

Bucky wrote:

Slowhand wrote:I can understand the allure of being with another woman, but I don’t understand the allure of having another dude bone my wife.

yeah, me too. i'm a hypocrite.

how do these swingers things work? all 4 together or is it a swap for a night? i could never do the former either.

Slowhand wrote:I can understand the allure of being with another woman, but I don’t understand the allure of having another dude bone my wife.

'Hail Satan' opening prayer at Alaska government meeting prompts walkouts, protest
Several attendees at a government meeting open to the public in Alaska walked out in protest after an opening prayer praised Satan.

The Associated Press reports the prayer, where a woman declared “Hail Satan,” was given by Satanic Temple member Iris Fontana, who won the right to open the meeting with an invocation of her choice.


“That which will not bend, must break, and that which can be destroyed by truth should never be spared as demise. It is done, hail Satan,” Fontana said to open the meeting

thephan wrote:phred announcing his pre-divorce right here in this very thread. good luck my man. here is hoping that 'never been warm to the concept' does not translate to shallow grave in the woods down the street.

TenuredVulture wrote:

thephan wrote:phred announcing his pre-divorce right here in this very thread. good luck my man. here is hoping that 'never been warm to the concept' does not translate to shallow grave in the woods down the street.

Could lose his job too. Swinging probably is complicated enough without doing it with a coworker.

swishnicholson wrote:

my cousin mose wrote:

Slowhand wrote:Also, let's say your wife says “No effing way”. What is she going to be thinking/feeling when you’re hanging out with this woman at work, happy hours, on business trips, etc? I mean, she would already know you’re dtf her. She’d have to wonder.

I dont disagree with this. I think one tact to take is just making her (Mrs. Phred) aware that the offer was made. At least that way he's been transparent about it

I obviously don't know Phred's situation. But from my experience if he's willing to be transparent, he better be ready to hear that she doesn't want to him to ever see this woman except where required by work, and maybe beyond that.

my cousin mose wrote:

swishnicholson wrote:

my cousin mose wrote:

Slowhand wrote:Also, let's say your wife says “No effing way”. What is she going to be thinking/feeling when you’re hanging out with this woman at work, happy hours, on business trips, etc? I mean, she would already know you’re dtf her. She’d have to wonder.

I dont disagree with this. I think one tact to take is just making her (Mrs. Phred) aware that the offer was made. At least that way he's been transparent about it

I obviously don't know Phred's situation. But from my experience if he's willing to be transparent, he better be ready to hear that she doesn't want to him to ever see this woman except where required by work, and maybe beyond that.

Fair point! My angle I guess was protecting himself from "hiding things" from her if she ever found out the offer was made by some freak situation

thephan wrote:

'Hail Satan' opening prayer at Alaska government meeting prompts walkouts, protest
Several attendees at a government meeting open to the public in Alaska walked out in protest after an opening prayer praised Satan.

The Associated Press reports the prayer, where a woman declared “Hail Satan,” was given by Satanic Temple member Iris Fontana, who won the right to open the meeting with an invocation of her choice.


“That which will not bend, must break, and that which can be destroyed by truth should never be spared as demise. It is done, hail Satan,” Fontana said to open the meeting

Well then.

CalvinBall wrote:Pics would help being informed

Werthless wrote:

thephan wrote:

'Hail Satan' opening prayer at Alaska government meeting prompts walkouts, protest
Several attendees at a government meeting open to the public in Alaska walked out in protest after an opening prayer praised Satan.

The Associated Press reports the prayer, where a woman declared “Hail Satan,” was given by Satanic Temple member Iris Fontana, who won the right to open the meeting with an invocation of her choice.


“That which will not bend, must break, and that which can be destroyed by truth should never be spared as demise. It is done, hail Satan,” Fontana said to open the meeting

Well then.

Pretty good job highlighting that it's weird to start a government meeting with a prayer.

Werthless wrote:

CalvinBall wrote:Pics would help being informed

I don't know why, but I assume this other couple is very attractive.