If you're teeth are rotting out of your head please do not smile at me

we're gonna need pics at this rate, floppy.

You know whats sad? I've worked out for 6 straight days. 15-17 miles per day on the bike. I played tennis for 2 hours on Wednesday in addition to the bike time. I'm really exhausted and my legs are sore, not to mention my damaged left knee is killing me. But I want to go to the gym after work. This has completely taken over my brain.

Floppy's situation reminds me of a song I hadn't heard in awhile, until recently...goes something like this......Oh I would do anything for love.....oh I would do anything foe love......oh I would do anything for love ....BUT I WON'T DO THAT.....NO I WON'T DO THAT..... If she doesn't work directly w/ you but in the same building and you you can avoid her if you try and fail, what's the problem? You should definitely make an effort.....I agree w/ Momadance ..if she's working out 5 times a week, I would guess that she doesn't have a boyfriend...either way...its still worth an inquiry.

The wise words of Meatloaf.

phuturephillies wrote:You know whats sad? I've worked out for 6 straight days. 15-17 miles per day on the bike. I played tennis for 2 hours on Wednesday in addition to the bike time. I'm really exhausted and my legs are sore, not to mention my damaged left knee is killing me. But I want to go to the gym after work. This has completely taken over my brain.

well you can either enjoy it for what its worth, eye candy (ur best option)

or go and do something about it (probably ruin everything)


I've been part of one these predicaments before, and I will say this: about 90% of the time for me, either I approach the girl and she has a BF, or I see her somewhere else with her Hubby/BF.... so like a good dream, I advise just stay asleep and pretend you don't even care she's there...

but really this is all very useless without PICS!

assuming this girl is as hot/cute as u say she is, she probably has a bf

its a good thought that the reason she is working out 5 days a week is because she doesnt have a BF, but i've been through this at the gym at college 9 out of 10 have Boyfriends....

in my experience the gym sucks to pick up chicks, but to look and oggle them, its one of the best around

Yeah, its tough. And the last thing I want is to approach her, try and make a move, and then find out she has a boyfriend. It would be terribly awkward. And that would suck. But if she doesn't, and we start working out outside the gym, well hot damn. But again, I don't like my percentages yet. I need to sort it out.

She could also say no.

there is no reason for the BF question to be the first one, and is the only reason it would REALLY be akward...

something really easy to do would be introduce urself, just say you got tired of seeing a cute girl like her everyday and having no clue what her name was... see how she reacts, a compliment from a total stranger will likely never hurt anyone and may open up the doors for some more small talk and who knows...

for all she'll know at that point U could have a GF...

phuturephillies wrote:Yeah, its tough. And the last thing I want is to approach her, try and make a move, and then find out she has a boyfriend. It would be terribly awkward. And that would suck.

You're completely the opposite of me in this regard. I always found it much less awkward if they had a boyfriend rather than find out she's just not into me. If she has a boyfriend I can think "She would've said yes if she was single" and I can relax if I'm around her. If she says she's just not interested, it becomes a bit of a "what's wrong with me" self conscious thing, making me much more awkward being around her.

But whatever. You don't have to ask her right off if she has a boyfriend. Just small talk like you do with anyone else. If she has a boyfriend it'll probably come up without you having to ask and she likely won't even know you were interested.

We really need joboggi for this though.

The kids call it party rap.

TheGrandMan wrote:

phuturephillies wrote:Yeah, its tough. And the last thing I want is to approach her, try and make a move, and then find out she has a boyfriend. It would be terribly awkward. And that would suck.

You're completely the opposite of me in this regard. I always found it much less awkward if they had a boyfriend rather than find out she's just not into me. If she has a boyfriend I can think "She would've said yes if she was single" and I can relax if I'm around her. If she says she's just not interested, it becomes a bit of a "what's wrong with me" self conscious thing, making me much more awkward being around her.

But whatever. You don't have to ask her right off if she has a boyfriend. Just small talk like you do with anyone else. If she has a boyfriend it'll probably come up without you having to ask and she likely won't even know you were interested.

We really need joboggi for this though.

exactly right, if u meet a cute girl for the first time, and maybe kinda flirt with her a little, if she has a BF she will let u know pretty right away... either she wants to play a game, or she is really interested in her BF...

either way it's better than if she was married

phuturephillies wrote:Yeah, its tough. And the last thing I want is to approach her, try and make a move, and then find out she has a boyfriend. It would be terribly awkward. And that would suck. But if she doesn't, and we start working out outside the gym, well hot damn. But again, I don't like my percentages yet. I need to sort it out.

Unless she's married, who gives a shit if she has a boyfriend. I'd go for it.

floppy why are you so afraid of this broad. who is she

Woody wrote:floppy why are you so afraid of this broad. who is she

I was going to ask but I think this girl must be ridiculously hot and if any guy says they don't get A LITTLE nervous or hesitant to approach a ridiculously hot girl they are lying out there assssssssss.

I don't have any advice, sometimes an uncomfortably awkward approach that doesn't seem to work does I guess.

I am not bad in some situations when it comes to approaching hot girls, but I won't claim to have game either. I think it's easier just to go for it than dwell on it though.

If she is in any way giving you eye contact, then she's interested. If she was going in and working out and basically ignoring you are even there, then I might move on.

Woody wrote:floppy why are you so afraid of this broad. who is she

Its a long story. But I can't handle more pyschoanalysis from Stu and Jeff, so I won't type explain it

Invite her into the sauna

LongDrive wrote:If she is in any way giving you eye contact, then she's interested. If she was going in and working out and basically ignoring you are even there, then I might move on.

This isn't even true, and it's why creepy meatheads bother chicks who have absolutely no interest in them