BigEd76 wrote:I don't think anyone knew the wife. She was 7 or 8 years older than us. The guy graduated with us and gave updates on FB throughout the ordeal (the cancer was discovered less than a year ago, and they have a 5-yr old son), and he says he got a lot of support from us, so after taking 6 months off from work and going to DisneyWorld last week with the son, he wanted to return back home and show his appreciation by having a party with ex-classmates and their families at a public park. I think he's buying all the food and drinks too, and others are bringing desserts...
Well, it may not be so bad, and the party is probably as much to help him as it is to thank everyone for their support. It might be OK...