CalvinBall wrote:Is someone gonna give a link...

The Dude wrote:i don't know. she was in a bad place

drsmooth wrote:married guys: does anyone else's wife occasionally take most/all her clothes out of her closets, flop them on your bed, and spend 2-3 hours going through them, trying stuff on, matching stuff up, then hang all the stuff back up/put it away without sending 1 goddamned item, not so much as a scarf, off to goodwill or salvation army or some damned place where someone will actually make use of this stupid item that's had the rain kept off it for 20 fucking years by your home's roof for no godddamned reason at all?

just curious. not that it bothers me.

The missus does this about once every 4-5 months, has for many years. I've never asked anyone about it.

TenuredVulture wrote:

my cousin mose wrote:

TenuredVulture wrote:

The Dude wrote:just thought of a sad thing i saw on my vacation. I was just sitting on the beach, and some kid's (about 7 years old) sister got sand in his eyes. he started crying, and the mom got all flustered. She goes "You wouldn't act like this if your father was alive". Made me sad

What kind of bullshit is that? Fucked up. Maybe the mom killed the dad.

doesn't sound like her finest moment, to be sure. but it sounds like she's probably going through some shit, too; being a widower and raising two young kids

No. You can do fucked up shit because you're grieving. But you should be kind to your children.