Random Thoughts, with or without steagles; preferably sans

by **my cousin mose** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:51:30

i hope an amicable split could be feasible. and as much as I'd love a move back to the philly area, brody deserves more than a dad who'd just leave him at the drop of a hat, if that makes sense. in other words, i'd rather be with my son than be able to attend phils games in person

by **ReadingPhilly** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:52:13

Houshphandzadeh wrote:
ReadingPhilly wrote:
Houshphandzadeh wrote:
my cousin mose wrote:real heavy for a random thoughts thread

Would you guys be able to amicably split time with the kid?

good question. if this goes splitsville is a pennsylvania move back on?

Then you'd be driving back every weekend?

i think he'd just be the deadbeat he says he doesn't want to be.

by **my cousin mose** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:52:39

i guess the real question is, if i moved back to the philly area, could we party every night? and if so, would fly-ass honey's be involved?

by **Werthless** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:52:41

You do realize the Phils are WFC, right?

by **WilliamC** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:52:48

my cousin mose is the answer to life, the universe, and everything!

by **Houshphandzadeh** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:52:52

my cousin mose wrote:i hope an amicable split could be feasible. and as much as I'd love a move back to the philly area, brody deserves more than a dad who'd just leave him at the drop of a hat, if that makes sense. in other words, i'd rather be with my son than be able to attend phils games in person

maybe a house down the road?

by **td11** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:54:20

titties!

by **my cousin mose** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:54:23

Houshphandzadeh wrote:
my cousin mose wrote:i hope an amicable split could be feasible. and as much as I'd love a move back to the philly area, brody deserves more than a dad who'd just leave him at the drop of a hat, if that makes sense. in other words, i'd rather be with my son than be able to attend phils games in person

maybe a house down the road?

you had me at hello

by **Houshphandzadeh** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:54:56

td11 wrote:titties!

+1

by **my cousin mose** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:55:00

here's the deal--i want what i want but i dont want my kid to hate me. FIGURE THE SHIT OUT FOR ME

by **Houshphandzadeh** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:55:09

my cousin mose wrote:
Houshphandzadeh wrote:
my cousin mose wrote:i hope an amicable split could be feasible. and as much as I'd love a move back to the philly area, brody deserves more than a dad who'd just leave him at the drop of a hat, if that makes sense. in other words, i'd rather be with my son than be able to attend phils games in person

maybe a house down the road?

you had me at hello

can your finances handle it?

by **my cousin mose** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:56:16

Houshphandzadeh wrote:
my cousin mose wrote:
Houshphandzadeh wrote:
my cousin mose wrote:i hope an amicable split could be feasible. and as much as I'd love a move back to the philly area, brody deserves more than a dad who'd just leave him at the drop of a hat, if that makes sense. in other words, i'd rather be with my son than be able to attend phils games in person

maybe a house down the road?

you had me at hello

can your finances handle it?

if by down the road, you mean reading, then perhaps. if not, i don't know

by **td11** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:57:02

mose, that sucks, i hope you can work that shit out for the best. any advice i have would be worthless, but if you're in the area, you let us know and we will throw down

by **ReadingPhilly** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:57:27

mose, seriously, drive your ass up here, we will sit down at the millmont this weekend, knock some beers back and figure all this shit out

by **my cousin mose** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:59:27

i just want you guys to know that the fact that you all don't think i'm total and complete asshole, it means the world. seriously. things are pretty tough right now, but the fact that i dont' completely suck at life means a lot

by **WilliamC** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 00:59:41

This is not advice because I can't understand the situation you are in right now but I think your kid will understand someday if not sometime soon that you are doing what is best for everyone involved if you are doing it like that.

Things that upset the kid now might be the things that one day make the kid thank you for not raising him in a certain situation.

by **WilliamC** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 01:03:22

I want in when this big philly meetdown goes down. I got to visit my cousin anyway

I need dates and such

by **my cousin mose** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 01:03:34

WilliamC wrote:This is not advice because I can't understand the situation you are in right now but I think your kid will understand someday if not sometime soon that you are doing what is best for everyone involved if you are doing it like that.

Things that upset the kid now might be the things that one day make the kid thank you for not raising him in a certain situation.

thank you very much. what makes it the most heartbreaking is the fact that he had no idea just what the heck's going on just yet. but seriously, i appreciate your take. i wish it were as simple as i feel like it shoudl be

by **my cousin mose** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 01:04:05

LET'S GET PISSED AND HATE THE METS

by **CrashburnAlley** » Fri Mar 20, 2009 01:04:52

VoxOrion wrote:
CrashburnAlley wrote:
VoxOrion wrote:All you have to do is pick up an instrument you don't know how to play, try and play it, and you'll have the easiest example of objectivity in music. One can take the "Make a joyful noise" thing too far.

That is subjective, though. We are socialized to believe that certain arrangements of sounds are pleasing, while others (like random strumming by a guitar newbie) are not.

It's not subjective. You're taking relativism to a "socialized" degree that is nonsensical.

I'm not seeing it, though. I'm not intentionally trying to be obtuse, I'm just trying to understand it, and I'm having a hard time. :?

I guess it's not subjective if you take an appeal to majority to be objective.

You don't have to guide me along here if you don't want to, but I'm just genuinely curious in understanding this.

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